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(138) Education and reality contact

By Onno Hansen-Staszyński4 September 2026

Introduction

Blog post 137 argued that a Digital Services Coordinator requires mechanisms that help maintain contact with the realities experienced by minors. A Youth Resilience Council (YRC) supported by Interdemocracy was proposed as a possible solution. Yet the challenge of reality contact is not limited to digital regulation. It may be equally relevant to education.
At first sight, this may seem surprising. Schools are among the few institutions that interact with young people on a near daily basis. Teachers spend years with students. Educational institutions observe students continuously. If any institution possesses access to student reality, it would appear to be schools. Yet many educators recognize a paradox. Despite constant contact, schools often know surprisingly little about the realities students inhabit.

The paradox of proximity

The challenge facing education may not be a lack of contact with students but a lack of contact with student reality. Teachers know how students perform academically. They know attendance patterns, behavioural records, and classroom participation. They may sometimes know something about a students’ home situation. Yet this does not provide substantial access to how students experience their lives, relationships, aspirations, anxieties, online environments, or social worlds.
The issue is not proximity. The issue is visibility. The realities that matter most to students often remain invisible within educational institutions.

Partial dislocation

Blog posts 129 and 130 focused on the concept of partial dislocation: individuals increasingly inhabit small, separate continuity systems that provide orientation and meaning. This phenomenon is relevant for educational environments.
Students simultaneously participate in multiple realities: family life, friendships, gaming communities, social media environments, online creator cultures, local communities, and school. Teachers typically encounter only a fragment of these worlds directly. Students and teachers often inhabit only partially overlapping realities. Even within the classroom, their experiences may differ substantially because they occupy different positions and therefore have access to different aspects of reality. Many of the other experiences shaping students’ lives remain even further beyond the teachers’ view.

The distinction between public and private reality

A second difficulty may be even more important. Schools belong to the public domain. They evaluate, assess, observe, record, and certify. These functions are necessary. Yet they also shape how students relate to educational institutions.
Many students learn to distinguish between what belongs in school and what belongs outside school. The distinction is often implicit. Some experiences are perceived as appropriate for the classroom. Others are reserved for friendship groups, online communities, family relationships, or private reflection. The result is that educational institutions may continuously interact with students while simultaneously remaining disconnected from significant parts of students’ lived reality.

Concerns

Blog posts 96 through 104 eexplored the role of the facilitator in creating conditions for participation. One recurring observation was that students do not automatically open up simply because they are invited to do so. Discomfort often remains present. Students may hesitate because they assume they will be misunderstood, judged, or ridiculed. At an age in which social exclusion is a genuine concern, becoming vulnerable in front of peers can feel socially risky. Students may also fear disappointing teachers or appearing too different in the eyes of their classmates.
These concerns do not necessarily produce insincerity. More often, they produce selective visibility. Students reveal enough to participate successfully in educational life, yet many of the realities that shape them are not shared.

Why reality contact matters

This may have important implications for education. Educational institutions often seek to prepare students for a rapidly changing world. Yet institutions can only respond effectively to realities they are capable of perceiving.
When reality contact weakens, educational responses risk becoming increasingly abstract. Schools may rely on assumptions about student experiences rather than the experiences themselves. Policies may be developed for realities that no longer exist. Educational interventions may address symptoms while missing underlying causes.
The challenge resembles the one discussed in blog posts 134 through 137. Institutions require mechanisms that preserve openness to realities beyond their own interpretive boundaries.

Interdemocracy

Interdemocracy can be understood as a response to precisely this challenge. Interdemocracy creates conditions under which students can formulate their own perspectives, encounter the perspectives of others, and participate in reciprocal processes of reflection and listening. The objective is not consensus. The objective is visibility.
Through a Youth Resilience Council that relies on input by students in an Interdemocracy setting educational institutions can gain access to realities that often remain hidden within ordinary classroom interactions. At the same time, students gain opportunities to encounter peer realities beyond their own immediate experiences. In this sense, Interdemocracy functions simultaneously as a pedagogical method and as a mechanism of institutional learning.

Conclusion

Blog posts 134 through 137 suggested that democratic resilience depends partly on maintaining contact with reality. Educational institutions may also face this challenge. Schools interact with students every day, yet prolonged proximity does not automatically produce understanding. Partial dislocation, the distinction between public and private realities, and fear of judgment can all limit what is visible.
Educational institutions require mechanisms that help reality emerge rather than assuming that reality is already present. Interdemocracy coupled with a YRC as an interface to situated student perspectives is such a mechanism. By implementing this mechanism, education may be a space that is more relevant for students while students may keep educational institutions in closer contact with reality - since even institutions that live alongside people every day can lose contact with their reality.